Well, it seems that the site got renewed by which I mean payment on due was paid to keep it up, so as always even though late I got to keep writing something; nothing particular just the thoughts from the sources and the reasons of them. It's easier to fall in love, and it's much easier to think of being in love; well, why not! often it gives a reason to Life, otherwise a journey with no lasting goal, but is it necessary? Idk, do you? From the perspective of a loner, it all seems like a gameplan devised to put someone's happiness to death and at the same time, it brings new insight into life.
But is it really necessary to be happy? Yes, but for our own selfish needs. We think of the far future never really understanding the present and the moment we stand. We think of the incompleteness that life presents us with but don't really decide to act on it. It's sad but true. We can't be happy unless we are happy being ourselves and for that, we must love, and to love someone else we need to first love ourselves. Now, what does being happy or loving ourselves actually mean? There's a lot of answers to it and the one I started to prefer is: Sit and think. Yes, sit, and think: things like am I holding something that is stopping me from being me? What is it that bothers me? and there's many more to it. There are instances of being sad from love too, love doesn't always mean happiness unless you know what is it like by loving yourself first. How about a situation of being in love but not being able to act to it or show? It's a part of both, isn't it? Anyways, the point is that you don't need to fall in love to be happy. Obviously, there are many kinds of it, and the one I am talking about is the one you fall for someone else and it's not a necessity, but if you did be happy that you felt it, that you learnt from it, cherish it because in the end even if it fades from a side you still got to feel it, perhaps for a short time. So be happy, be calm and be quiet. It's okay to be down, but it's necessary to be fine and happy. With time, you will learn and so will I.
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